Originally Posted by -Ra-
That doesn't change the fact that she was humiliated. It's like going up to someone with a scar on their face, one which they're insecure about, and bashing it in their faces saying, "HOLY COW! LOOK AT THAT BIG, UGLY, GROTESQUE SCAR ON YOUR FACE, WHOA!" you get the point.
Ra,
At least the guy with the scar probably has some cool story (or can get away with making one up). "Yeah, I was hiking up in the Khangai Mountains when these six snow leopards ambushed me. I beat them all with my bare hands, but not before one of the males managed to slash my face."
The obese woman has no cool story. "I... was vacationing in my pantry when these six cakes ambushed me..." Not nearly as cool. Plus, no one ever takes responsibility for their own weight. Not that she deserved to be humiliated.